Transitions: Part Two

In my last post, my eldest daughter was in the doom and gloom stage of the summer because of the summer packets she had to complete. I was also feeling the doom and gloom, because I had to help! Now don't get me wrong, for as a parent this is what I do. It is my job as well as my daughter's to make sure her school work gets done. But I must say we couldn't even enjoy the last two weeks before school started, because we were so "overwhelmed." Tennis camp was over, and now she had to really get on the grind. I was glad she was able to take a trip with her teammates and coaches earlier in the summer for a week. Ironically it had to do with school, but it was a college tour where she learned about being a college student. She even stayed in the dorms. It is never to late to get started early!

Life Rewinds

So we are now about a month into the school year, and the chaos is starting to simmer down. Sort of. The transition to middle school status for my daughter has not been easy. So it got me thinking about when I started middle school oh some years ago! The first thing that scared me was I had no clue about the middle school (or middle school in general). I went to Rippon Middle School in Dale City, Virginia. It was located a distance from our house, and you had to take the bus. If I missed the bus, then I was short. I was a latched key kid, so you know how that goes! As a matter of fact, I missed the bus on my first day of 6th grade, because I didn't know to catch the bus down the hill on the next street (not on my street where the bus drops you off in the afternoon)! So I walked back home scared of how I was going to explain missing the bus to my parents!

Other things that scared me about transitioning to the sixth grade was adjusting to changing classes and lockers!! Okay lockers scared me, because I didn't know how to use the combination lock! My locker was so clean when we had locker checks! I used to carry my books or leave them in my homeroom desk (sometimes an empty desk)! What was going through my eleven year-old mind?!! I was not prepared, and being a shy/quiet child didn't help. I was scared to ask for help. Do you see the reoccurring theme?

Now Press Forward

In order to get my new sixth grader to have a better transition than I did, I had to give her the facts.

• She had to know: Her parents are here to support her, and that she can come to us for anything.
• She had to know: Her mama was "scared" on her first day/weeks of the sixth grade!
• She had to know: How to maneuver her way through the halls of school to get to classes on time. It was chaotic the first week, because no one was there to guide the new students. Now this was upsetting to me, because my child is new to this school. Yes, she did two day visits, but she was visiting with the fifth grade class where you only have one teacher! She did not know about homeroom, and that she would have to change classes for other subjects. Plus who hands you a schedule of classes and dismisses you out in the halls of chaos to find your way?
• She had to know: She could not leave her personal things in the classroom or desk, because she has a locker now! *Twilight moment for me now!
• She had to know: More was going to be expected of her now, because she is in middle school. Even though the school starts from Pre-k3 and 4 and goes to the eighth grade, her elementary days were over. Middle school has their own floor on the third level.
• She had to know: She has to be even more responsible for her personal items, books, assignments, schedule, homework, grades, and paying attention to all the classes/subjects.
• She had to know: She is going to learn (the hard way) how to be organized! 

How do you get organized with all the subjects and classes you now have to take? That is a question we had to tackle head-on, because like I said before-chaos!! So in order to keep some sanity, I had my daughter label all her folders and compositions books. It looked a little something like this:

Seven subject folders.
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Labeled composition books and folders.
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Now once everything was labeled, she placed the matching (labeled) composition book inside the corresponding folder. I can't say this is definitely working, because I have found other subjects mixed up in some of her folders (ex: music worksheet inside social studies folder)! Still working on it!

One item I had to take care of was the combination lock for her locker. Thank goodness she is better at opening a combination lock than I was at her age! To help her locker stay organized, I purchased on clearance for $4.38 (was $14.99 at my favorite Red Boxed store) a stackable locker shelf. She wanted to be able to separate her morning class books, folders, and notebooks from her afternoon classes! She is learning! Since I don't think you can take photos of the school lockers (you know school property!), the third photo shows how the shelf will look inside her locker. The pieces just snapped together inside the locker, and there you have it -organization! I also got her a magnetic pencil/pen holder and a magnetic wire basket to hang inside her locker. Both were one clearance for under $1 each. Parents you know this is the best time to buy more back to school items-when they're on CLEARANCE!!!

Just four parts to shelf!
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Magnetic pencil/pen holder and wire
basket.
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Locker shelf put together.
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ALWAYS CHECK THE
CLEARANCE AISLE!!
ESPECIALLY A FEW WEEKS
AFTER SCHOOL STARTS!!












Now those of you parents, guardians, and caregivers who are old school like me may remember those infamous Trapper Keeper binders! You know the 3 ring binder with the Velcro snap in front that drove our parents and teachers crazy with that snapping sound! I decided to get one for my daughter, but I had to bring it 2014 style! So I bought a more update version  (also on clearance!). It has a type of water proof material with a handle and shoulder strap! As you can see, the binder holds her scheduler, pocket dictionary, calculator, loose leaf paper, folder tabs, has pockets in front and back to hold paperwork, and she can keep her little bag of supplies in there too.

Outside of binder.
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Inside of binder.
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Now these are a few things I have done to help my daughter with this new transition to middle school. Lord knows I am doing my best to keep her and myself sane through this process. Like I said before, it has not been an easy process. Plus she is not the only child I have going through a transition. There is my daughter in first grade who has her own issues. Thank goodness it is not as hectic as her big sister's situation!! Then again I will see this situation again once she gets to the 6th grade! Lord help me now!



So what is your Life Rewind? How are you handling the chaos of school? Has it simmered down? Feel free to leave a comment, and tune in next time to Life Rewinds Now Press Forward.

Blog post copyright October 9, 2014

Author: Kaisha S. Goring

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